Of Socks and Men

“Dear Sabeeha, I’m sure you’ve seen this. What do you think of it?”
I hadn’t seen it. A colleague of mine, a dear friend, had sent me a text on Facebook Messenger first thing in the morning, with a link to a piece in the New York Times: “How Do I Know Where Your Socks Are?”

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Woman Proposes; God Disposes

Today I would have been in Pakistan, sitting in the lawn on a sunny afternoon, savoring a cup of Kashmiri Chai with my sister Neena, and bouncing my two-year old grandnephew on my arthritic knee. But it didn’t happen.

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May We Have Many More

If someone had walked into my home yesterday, she would have said, “Only in New York!” In a Muslim home, with Quranic calligraphy gracing the walls, a Jewish woman says the Hanukah prayer over the menorah and candles, while the soft sounds of Silent Night, Holy Night play from the replica of Nativity Scene, and the ladies munch over Santa chocolates wrapped in red and silver wrappers.

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To Have or To Have Not

Sorry Shakespeare, I didn’t mean to twist your Hamlet line (To be or not to be). But I am more likely to get into trouble with Hemingway for manipulating his book title: To Have and Have Not. But mine is different. Of course its different. I am not talking about choosing between life and death, or being rich or poor. I am talking about Wi-Fi.

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